tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5746984982046768506.post456676243064216745..comments2023-03-25T21:27:15.908+10:00Comments on Gay Fourth And Multiply: ScareBechttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08378718354916406497noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5746984982046768506.post-47662511938116399862010-09-15T18:51:29.407+10:002010-09-15T18:51:29.407+10:00Good Luck Bec.
Fingers crossed that it all works...Good Luck Bec. <br /><br />Fingers crossed that it all works out well and you won't be faced with the heart-wrenching choice. You're very brave to be so honest and open and the comments above are evidence that noone is judging you. Do what's right for you, your relationship and your little family. <br /><br />All the best,<br />Dru xxIamSusiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05946230863335240343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5746984982046768506.post-39121078071630667342010-09-01T10:00:59.490+10:002010-09-01T10:00:59.490+10:00NO judgement here!
And this is coming from someon...NO judgement here!<br /><br />And this is coming from someone whose older brother has Downs Syndrome. I love him, but I think it's wonderful that if you don't feel you're up for the challenge you can choose. My brother has always been loved and supported, but it is NOT easy!<br /><br />Maybe all this debate won't matter; I certainly hope all comes out well! (HUGS))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5746984982046768506.post-43518836915368997612010-08-31T22:59:05.370+10:002010-08-31T22:59:05.370+10:00Wow Bec,
This is big stuff, and how absolutely gut...Wow Bec,<br />This is big stuff, and how absolutely gutsy of you to share your story. <br /><br />What a painful and daunting decision, love and light to you both, <br /><br />love Denise xDenise Daffarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07801266768409735975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5746984982046768506.post-58071889998755094002010-08-31T21:32:30.509+10:002010-08-31T21:32:30.509+10:00Hey Bec
I also am sending you and T good vibes...n...Hey Bec<br />I also am sending you and T good vibes...no judgement here my friend. I would make the same decision if i was in that situation. This medical technology has been developed for this very reason, so that we have the choice.<br />good luck, hugs Jack <br />(I am a complete chicken shit when it comes to needles, the very thought makes me break out in a cold sweat, ask for the numbing cream at the chemist :D)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17418313801850351560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5746984982046768506.post-35533248589632777832010-08-31T19:52:13.045+10:002010-08-31T19:52:13.045+10:00Hey Bec, my thoughts are with you and Tracy. If i...Hey Bec, my thoughts are with you and Tracy. If it is any consulation, with my youngest, Flynn, I was also told that my baby had a chance of having Downs through the same trinuchal fold on the back of the neck. From memory I think it is meant to be .2. My son's was somthing ridiculous like 8. I had the amnio, the wait, the angst etc etc. The longer the wait, apparently the better the odds of it not being downs. We received a phhone call eight days later to say all was well and it wasn't Downs. When I mention this to the nurse, she turned to me and said "you know it is only a theory and it actually is not proven" - well, I could have punched that doctor fair and square in the kisser for the trauma (yes it is traumatic) he put us through!<br />Everyone's choice is different, and while you might feel like the world is judging you - we all can empathise with the decision that you and Tracy are facing.<br />Best of luck!<br />Nina<br /><br />PS - that massive tri-nuchal fold turned out to be a baby boy the size of two year old!!ninalupihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16388166357697320151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5746984982046768506.post-73568181060897573352010-08-31T19:34:55.064+10:002010-08-31T19:34:55.064+10:00Think you can escape a big fat hug from me? Not a ...Think you can escape a big fat hug from me? Not a chance amazing lady xAnne-Louisenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5746984982046768506.post-3974529494250447742010-08-31T19:19:25.673+10:002010-08-31T19:19:25.673+10:00Thanks peeps, I appreciate your thoughts and words...Thanks peeps, I appreciate your thoughts and words. Booked in the amnio today - and it's done at 15 weeks, not 16 (must have misheard that one). AND, freaking out majorly as it is done with no anaesthetic. That's right, they are sticking a needle into my abdomen through my belly without a jot of pain relief. I think I will ring and ask if I can have at least that gel numbing stuff they have...that is crazy!Bechttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08378718354916406497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5746984982046768506.post-92188152538890130132010-08-31T19:10:00.310+10:002010-08-31T19:10:00.310+10:00No judgement here either.
Sending lots of love an...No judgement here either.<br /><br />Sending lots of love and good vibes your way.<br /><br />I'll be thinking of you.<br />xo<br />SassSasshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05182150207885839311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5746984982046768506.post-36716200791255932552010-08-31T14:29:34.601+10:002010-08-31T14:29:34.601+10:00hey, sending positive vibes and no judgement. This...hey, sending positive vibes and no judgement. This is a tough decision and it may look callous in black and white but I know that a LOT of thought and heartache is behind the typing. It's your decision.<br />Good luck for a good result from the FISHAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17396378364156813235noreply@blogger.com